[Read: How to get a sex buddy] # Girls definitely like a guy who’s shy at first but opens up after a few conversations.They definitely don’t like a guy who’s shy in the first conversation and shy after that too. They’re more sensitive and caring and girls like their company.Or perhaps, I’m just a sucker for love and memories.[Read: Signs you’re ready to be friends with your ex] My last “relationship” with a guy I really loved taught me a few things though, and it really helped me cope with this dilemma of missing guys who somehow never missed me back.[Read: 15 subtle signs of a controlling boyfriend] I missed him more after the breakup I respected his view, but I really missed him a lot when he wasn’t around. I used to email him long miss-you-and-love-you letters only to get a short, curt one line reply. I even broke up with my new boyfriend in the hope that it would make my workplace lover come back to me. He was the guy who pursued me for a year and convinced me to end my long term relationship to be with him.
It was easier than I thought, once I made up my mind. But as soon as a great guy starts to pursue a girl, she forgets about the shy guy because, well, he’s just not doing anything to reciprocate.If you’re a shy guy, learn to use the opportunity of first impressions. And even the smallest gesture by a shy guy can make a huge difference to a girl, especially if she likes him already. They’re good listeners and they’re very considerate.And not just solo, but really-really-really-want-to-be-in-a-relationship-crazy-obsessed-single-gal. And almost all girls feel safe, and dare I say it, even confident around them. They hardly talk, and they’re really good at just listening to the girl. We definitely love a cute shy guy who can just watch us, smile to himself and listen to everything we have to say.