If you are a single woman that has been seeing a married man for some time and reading this, chances are that you have already gone through the initial stages of infatuation and blinding bliss.In these initial stages you are not wanting to think too deeply about the realities you are creating in your life by pursuing this relationship.Contrast with Imaginary Enemy and Not-So-Imaginary Friend.The revelation that one of the characters is an imaginary friend is sometimes used as a major plot twist, so beware of spoilers.Friends and family sense you are closed off in some way, and can become confused and discouraged about your relationship with them.You can feel this, yet are afraid it would cause more damage to their feelings about you if they knew.Your sense of intimacy with your lover can seem more intense when he becomes one of the few people you can really talk to.
Kids always give them the creepiest possible names.
Intimate, but isolated You have a wonderful newfound closeness with this man that you may not have had for a very long time.
However, as time goes by he becomes one of the few people you can be intimate with because you cannot share what is most important for you in your life with most others.
But as things progress and the honeymoon period wears off you start to have questions, you bring them up to you lover, but most likely come away with answers that leave you only partially or not at all satisfied.
These questions have to do with what you mean to him, whether or not he will leave his wife for you, how he can justify cheating on his wife, whether or not he has done this before, or is cheating on you now.