(He is setting you up for when down the road he punishes you by refusing to come to bed or sleeps on the other side of the bed not touching you all night) 24.He will borrow a small sum of money and pay you right back (proving you can trust him so when he goes for the BIG bucks you won’t doubt that he’ll pay you back) Usually they are in financial trouble of some kind, all he needs is a little help to get back on his feet. ie: We met at the end of November so were entering a very social time of year.In his past relationships they would roll over and go to sleep but with you it is different.He will point out that how people sleep is an indication of how “connected” they are. Well, let me give you a few, 30 to be exact; dead give-aways you are dating a Narcissist.If he is what he says he is, it will show over time and he won’t mind waiting.How many red flags do you need in order to run away and save yourself? Time will tell, his mask will drop, that is why he is pushing for commitment, he wants to hook you before you see the real person under the facade.
He wants to get to know you alright, just not for the reason you think.
True love does not fade the longer you date, it grows stronger.
Do not move in because you don’t want to lose him, if he is as sweet as he pretends to be waiting will not be a problem. The biggest number one without fail sign of a narcissist is how they sweep you off your feet at the beginning of the relationship.
He on the other hand was freshly showered, always wore jeans anyway and had a nice shirt on) I told him I didn’t want to go, I wasn’t dressed for it and he just said I was beautiful as I was and that we wouldn’t stay long he just wanted to say hi to a few buddies.
We ended up staying most of the night and I felt uncomfortable because I was under dressed and he was the life of the party. His description of relationships with family or friends don’t fit what you experience.